Tuesday, January 31, 2017

Hello, My Faithful Readers

January 31st, 2017
Volume 1, Number 2

It feels really good being back here in Tbilisi. I know I complain about the city; but I really missed it. I missed the language; my apartment, which is called “Bina” in Georgian; my friends - I have lots of friends here and also many of the details of living in a foreign country.  I kinda-of-sort-of missed the transportation system also – which really surprised me; but, I am only back a couple of weeks so that could change.  J

One thing for certain is that as challenging as the metro bus and marshrutka “marsh” systems are (meaning shared taxi in Russian); I was never really hurt on them. Maybe that is because when I travel my guard is always on high alert. At times the marsh does not fully stop when getting on and off, the same with the buses – so I am really careful. Also, when riding I am always holding on  - no matter if I am standing or sitting. I don’t usually talk when traveling as I need to be awake and aware.  It’s not a very relaxing time; but I’ve always been safe and I get to where I am going.

So, what happened in Philadelphia really surprised me as I was hurt on a bus the day after I returned to the States. I’ve posted a picture of me with a black eye as when the bus I was on stopped short; I went flying and hit my head on the hand rail of one of the seats. You see, I thought I was safe when I was traveling; obviously not. I was not paying attention as I was actually having a conversation. These are actions that I would NEVER have taken in Georgia. As a result; I was hurt. Thank goodness I was not seriously hurt. The eye looked awful for almost a month; but no real damage was done. Wow, was I lucky.

I went round and round with the insurance company; however, in true form the insurance company kept pointing the finger away from their responsibility onto another vehicle who they claimed had the responsibility.  I have noted in previous blogs that here in Georgia there is little if any liability; but, in my situation even though there was liability it sure didn’t mean much. The aggravation of phone calls and circular conversation exhausted me and frankly, since I was not really hurt – I just put it aside. I didn’t want my limited time home to be marred with this.
So, onto more tales from Life 101!

My flight home from Philadelphia to Doha was great. I really like Qatar Airlines. I’ve flown with them to other places and I have always been pleased to everything that makes flying comfortable, even though I was in the air for twelve hours. However, since I cannot fly directly to Tbililsi; I needed to connect in Doha for a flight to Tbilisi. Now, at times (and not sure how this is organized) but, the airlines sometimes does not fly direct from Doha to Tbilisi. At times they stop in Baku and my flight was one of those times.

I have written an article about the experience (see below) so I don’t want to rehash the details; but, the short version here is that there were LIVE FALCONS in the air cabin headed for Baku (about 15 rows behind me). . I have never seen or read anything about having live stock (that was not in a carrier type device) in an air cabin with passengers; but, here I was watching three men coming on-board each with a FALCON on their arms. It was an experience I won’t soon forget. More details in the article…….


At this point, let me catch you up with some of the awesome opportunities I’ve had and I am currently experiencing living here in Tbilisi. So, some of My Faithful Readers who I was able to break bread with when I was home, will find some of this redundant as I was gushing about all this during my time in the States.

To begin…I have more opportunities here in Georgia for work that I ever had in the States. I often say, somewhat seriously, that I could work 24/7 if I wanted to; but I turn down more jobs than I accept. I am in a unique position, as a retiree, that I don’t have to work at just anything to keep body and soul together. I can be very choosy as to how I spend my time, and WOW, does it feel good.

Some of my friends call me “The Professional Interviewer”. I love to interview especially since I am not attached to the outcome. If I get the job, ok – if not, ok also. I like to meet the people and the organization in order to find out what opportunities exists. It is a lot of fun for me. Most of the jobs I turn down; but I always tell them that I have someone who they may also find interesting. The networking is just awesome.

I am working at a Seminar Leader at the University Of Georgia Law School. This opportunity came about on Face Book; as seriously, so many job opportunities here in Georgia come about on Face Book. The job consists of 2 hours a week; and some additional time for preparation as well as travel to and from the University. I include travel time as the traffic is so bad in Tbilisi that often times it takes me hours (yes, hours) to get from one place to another…but, traffic is another story.

 My role is to prepare the students for the lecture they will have with the Law Professors later in the week. I cover the materials so that they are familiar with vocabulary and concepts so that the students have some background before the lecture with the Professor. It is a wonderful 2 hours. By Georgian standards; I am paid fairly well; but, most of all I like working with University age students.  In addition to making them aware of the materials to prepare them for the lecture; I also fold in real world language specific to the law and business field. I use idioms and slang; so that outside of Georgia if someone says, for example,  “Do you want a seat at the Table?” – the students will know that it does not mean going to a restaurant (which is what they thought it meant).


I’ve listed the web link for the University if you would like to learn more about this institution; as I could finish this blog with more detail about this one opportunity alone. But, as time goes forward I will give more details.
But, I would like to go on to my next adventure which is working at the British Corner in Tbilisi.  This organization is part of the ESU (English-Speaking Union) that lists 55 countries around the world participating. The British Corner is sponsored by England; and I’ve listed some links below if you would like to find out more.



All of this was new to me. I’d never heard of the ESU and I am still learning about this organization; however, what I do at the British Corner is teach children. I work for 3 hours on Sunday working with a group of almost high school students and a group of younger students; who by-the-way, are foreign nationals from Germany, Romania, Italy, France, Turkey and other places that I cannot remember. It is truly a diverse group. These children are both fluent in their native language; as well as somewhat proficient in English.

I agreed to take this position because I was promised flexibility with my schedule. I don’t have to work every Sunday and I can also set the agenda for the time. I work with the children, of course in English – but I use my “Non-Traditional” Curriculum to fill the class period. The topics range from distinguishing between fact and opinion, creative writing, building reading strategies and skills; money, planning, body language, how to form an argument; world affairs; vocabulary…I could go on but I think you get the picture. I’ve been working to develop a curriculum here in Georgia that would touch on topics that the students usually don’t get during their school day. The British Corner allows be great latitude in working with the students to try out so many unconventional methods and topics. It is a good match, and I get paid. Not much; but, it’s nice to have some funny money.

I have been doing volunteer work also, which has been very rewarding. I work in an Orphanage here in Tbilisi called the “Infant House”. This Orphanage houses upward of maybe one hundred children all younger than five years old.


This is all very new to me and the numbers change from week to week (I am told). I dedicate two hours a week (that is what is permitted) and I work with other US volunteers as well as other women from various embassies here in Georgia.
You would think this would be an easy opportunity to get; but, it was not. I had to have a physical and a note from my doctor and be vetted by the Georgian Ministry of Education that took completing forms, forms and more forms. It took months to accomplish. Once approved, I had to sign a document, of course in Georgian, but I was told that it basically said I would be part of the organization for one year. I just signed another contact for 2017.

Believe me, it was so worth it. The volunteers usually arrive in groups of three or four and we work with the children for two hours. Most of the children have some type of physical handicap; so what we do is hold the children and/or get them to sit up (which is different from their laying on their backs all the time). We move their legs, feet and arms. Often rub their back and give lots of hugs and kisses.

There just is not enough staff to play with the children; they are busy with the duty of cleaning, feeding and all the necessary things that babies need. We volunteers get on the floor and play with the children. Sometimes it is so joyful; we are laughing so hard listening to children laughing and then sometimes I cry; as it is just heartbreaking watching the children and knowing that their life will be so limited. We do try and use toys to help with their motor skills; but, time is so limited. Just to hold them so they can feel another heart beat close to their bodies is sometimes all that they need.

I plan to start a reading program. In my short time at the Infant House I have not seen any books; but, I’ve gathered some English children books and plan to read to the children. Of course, they won’t understand lots of the words; but, my inflection, tone and looking at the pictures will be something I think they will enjoy (I know I will). I’ve also enlisted a day care business in Tbilisi to give me books that they will no longer need so that we can donate them to the Infant House.

I love getting the closeness and touch from the children. I love to see their big smiles all because I was able to throw a ball in their direction. I love to give them a high five and also play peek-a-boo. You see, sometimes I act like a five year old and this volunteer work allows me to be a silly as I want.

I will write more on this as time goes on….but for now.

I want to answer a question that so many folks have asked; and that it what about health insurance here in Georgia. So, I am happy to say that I do have health insurance. It is not very comprehensive; mostly x-rays if needed; flu shot; flu and allergy doctor visits, mammograms and some hospitalization. Needless to say, if I really got sick I would have to come back to the States. But, for routine type care this doctor group would be satisfactory.

My Doctor (woman) does speak English but it is always a challenge to communicate. For example; I emailed for an appointment to get a flu shot and finally after countless emails was given an appointment. When I arrived at her office she asked me what I wanted and I said that I wanted a flu shot….Oh, my she said, I thought you (meaning me) had the flu….Heavens to Betsy! Not life threatening but sometime frustrating (but often life here in Tbilisi is like that).

I did get my flu shot, eventually…but at times it is exhausting.

Another snafu was the time when my prescription that was intended for 5MG; was written for 500MG. Seriously, I must be ever vigilant to make sure that I am getting what I am asking for.

Here is an interesting fact; in that, all the medication is in Russian and you don’t need a prescription.  I can just go into the pharmacy and show them the box and they will give me the prescription over-the-counter. It is so unusual; as that is not the practice in the States; but, I am kinda getting used to this new method of service.

The big news with the medical insurance, and I hope you are sitting down as you read this, is that the cost is on an annual basis. It is by contract for a year and the total cost is…drum roll please - $50.00 USD. I thought there was a mistake. Maybe they got the zero in the wrong place; but, no, that was it. Because I am over a certain age I was only eligible for one select plan; but, like I said this is just for routine care.

I am getting ready to travel to India with a group called American Councils. I will be gone 30 days teaching at a private school (within a gated community) in an area south of Mumbai. Children from Afghanistan will arrive for the program. In attendance will be Mostly pre high school or early high school students; both boys and girls – 25 of each. I will write more about this in my next blog; but needless to say “I am over the Moon”! This is the dream…sports fans. Working and traveling!

All the best, My Faithful Readers…..see you next month


Best, Catherine Lawrence – 1/31/17

 Black eye from bus accident in Philadelphia - November 2016
 Me in my Tbilisi Apartment - June, 2016
 Laundry in my Tbilisi Apartment, Sun Room
Puzzle Table - Yeah! In the Tbilisi Apartment - Sun Room

Sunday, January 1, 2017

Hello, My Faithful Readers

January 1st, 2017
Volume 1, Number 1

 It has been almost six months since I’ve written and believe it or not (HA) – it is only because I have NO IDEA what to call my blog (post-Peace Corps). I know it is a crazy reason not to put pen to paper (or key strokes to the screen); but, there it is. I am so “Thankful” for the many readers who have encouraged me to continue writing. I’m told (by a very wise source) that the title of the new blog will arise once I start writing. And so, here we go!

This link will take you to my previous blog written during my service in the Peace Corps (2014-2016) in the Republic of Georgia. My wonderful son had this published for me as a Christmas present...:-)

I have so many experiences to share with you; as I have been keeping notes along the road while living in Tbilisi. The transition from being a Peace Corps Volunteer back to real life (or life as “real” as it gets living in a foreign country). Life has been up and down just like it would be if I lived in the USA – but, more challenging as well as more expansive as to how I make sense of my time here in the world.

However, I would like to begin this blog at the end of 2016, December - instead of when I left the Peace Corps in June 2016. I will fill in the gaps as the blog goes forward; but, I think my biggest “shift” has happened during my time back here in the States.  I returned to the United States in Mid-November, 2016 to visit with my family after almost being away for three years. I plan to stay until Mid-January, 2017. During this time lots needed to happen; for example, dentist, doctors, taking care of all kinds of business and ordering stuff that I don’t have to pay shipping charges back to Tbilisi. I’ve had so many visits with friends and of course holiday meals with family during this time. It has been wonderful to visit and get to talk and catch up as seriously, I don’t know when I am going to get to see anyone as time goes forward (but, that is another saga soon to be written about).

I was told there would be a “culture shock” as I returned to the USA and in some respects that was true. I’ll explain in a moment; but, honestly, not much has really changed here at home. There are some new buildings and some construction that was not happening when I was here last; but, I didn’t find the landscape much different. One of the shocks that really shook me was the availability of water and washing facilities. During my time in-service, as you know, showers were far, few and in-between; however, I noticed how folks (no mention of names – they know who they are ) - J, showered at least once  a day if not more. I know this is the norm here; however, it seems so foreign to me and wasteful. Also another shocker was how many pharmaceutical commercials there are on television! I was floored to watch advertisement after advertisement of so many drugs and what they cured, as well as their side effects. I, along with another special person in my life, heard about “clinical depression” so often we started to make a joke out of it. When did this happen?
I don’t watch television in Georgia (really didn’t watch television when I lived in the USA); so, this also been an eye opener for me being exposed in such quantity to this medium. I can more clearly see how much of the news has become entertainment and just don’t know what to do with my thoughts (I am at a loss for words).

Thomas Wolfe saying about “Never being able to go home again” and I think I have experienced some of this also. I was apprehensive about returning (after being away for almost 3-years); but, I didn’t anticipate on any level of feeling this. I can see clearly that I cannot return to my previous way of life. This is a good thing and yet it is also sad.

 I can see also that so many of the things that I craved were not as good in reality as they were in fantasy during my time abroad.  Let me give you an example: Egg rolls in Georgia are as thin as a cigarette and are so boiled in oil I hardly know what I am eating. Egg rolls at my home USA city were ok; but, I can honestly put to rest ever craving one again. I could give you a laundry list of items that I have been missing that have disappointed me in “reality” here– but, the one thing that did not disappoint was the “Butter Cake” from a local diner. OMG, I could have eaten the entire cake. This, My Faithful Readers, I will miss. I may have to fly back in secret and get one; or maybe, I could order one and have it sent…not likely, but this cake will be missed.

In my life food has been very important; however, in Georgia, not so much. I can count on my hands how many meals in Georgia I’ve looked forward to. However, being home here in the States is the exact reverse. There really has not been a meal in the past 6-weeks that I’ve not looked forward to. I’ve gained weight; but, I have no doubt that when I return to Georgia I will be able to NOT use food to help me navigate daily living.

I fly back home to Tbilisi on January 15th so I have a couple more weeks here in the States. I have grown so much being here and look forward to what will happen as I finish up here. I leave the USA heavy in calories; however, much of my emotional baggage has been eased or completed. I’ve been cleaning out my apartment as when I left for the Peace Corps I really thought I would return to the States to live. I didn’t anticipate relocating to Eastern Europe. So, as a result I left many things in limbo; for example, clothes, books, papers, memorabilia and things that I will probably never use again. I thought “why am I keeping this stuff?” And better yet "Why did I buy these things?" I think a lot of the purchases were to fill something that was missing or to fill time; which is not the case any longer. If I’ve not used it during my time away; am I ever going to need it?  

And so I have been purging and it feels so good.  In Tbilisi I live a minimal and un-complicated life where “”stuff” is concerned. It is interesting that in the Peace Corps we called don’t call it stuff; it is called “Crap”. No dis-respect intended; but, all this stuff ends up in the trash at some point. I know I don’t want to buy anything; as really the only thing I want to use my money for is travel. 

I live by  the adage"Buy Experience, not Things."

I think this is a good start for the New Year and my re-entry into resurrecting my blog.  Thank you to everyone who has encouraged me to begin writing again; it does feel good.

To be continued…….

Catherine Lawrence – January 1, 2017